Hi, I’m Tom.

I want to help you improve your relationships, with those you love and with yourself. 

Is there a lot of drama in your life and in your relationships?  Are you unsure of the direction you want to take next? By understanding more about your wants and needs the direction forward will often become more clear.

Tom Bruett, LMFTDiscovering authenticity

No matter your age, gender, race or sexual orientation hiding a part of yourself can be stifling and it can get in the way of building more authentic and meaningful relationships.

With more support you can be more present and courageous in your life.

Developing relationships

I’m a relational therapist. That means I show up in the room with you and offer feedback and a perspective that sometimes may be different from your own. I’ll encourage you to be honest with yourself and look deeper.


Through working together I help you get in touch with those parts of yourself that you may have been ignoring. Together we’ll find fresh solutions to face your vulnerabilities and put yourself out there again. By believing in you, my aim is to help you believe in yourself.

My Approach

My approach is patient, warm, and expressive. I’m not afraid of humor, anger or tears. Even if they happen all at the same time.

When we meet you’ll experience someone who is curious about you and genuinely interested in helping you achieve your goals. Our sessions will feel like a conversation and I will actively, passionately be engaged in helping you better understand your emotions and needs.

My role is to see your potential for growth, even if you’re not able to at the moment.

I look forward to getting to know you.

Ready to Take the First Step?

Schedule a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if we might be a good fit.

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